Britaniialyq psihoterapevter Hizer Týrdjeon men Djýli Rait ata-analarǵa bala tárbiesinde kez kelgen qiyndyqty jeńýge kómektesetin arnaiy oqý quralyn shyǵardy, dep jazdy RIA Novosti sheteldik BAQ-qa silteme jasap.
Bul oqýlyqta mamandar erke balalarǵa eshqashan aitýǵa bolmaityn sózderdiń tizimin jasaǵan. Óitkeni ol sózder balalardyń minez-qulyǵyn nasharlatyp, ata-ana men bala arasyndaǵy bailanysqa kedergi keltirýi múmkin.
Sonymen, myna sózderdi balańyzǵa aitýshy bolmańyz:
∙ Olai isteme dep qansha ret aittym?
∙ Qanymdy iship bittiń ǵoi!
∙ Nege tyńdamaisyń?
∙ Jylama deimin, kishkentai balasyń ba?!
∙ Óitkeni men aittym, bitti!
∙ Qazir dereý sóndirmeseń, búgin táttiden qur qalasyń!
Sonymen qatar, Týrdjeon men Rait ata-analarǵa arnalǵan arnaiy ádisteme daiyndady, ony ALP dep atap, úsh kezeńge bólip qarastyrǵan (attune, limit set and problem solve — oqý, shekarany anyqtaý jáne problemany sheshý).
